8.20.2012

Wine Tasting Party

Friday night we rang in Joel's quarter century birthday with friends, music, and lots and lots of wine.



We even had a special visitor come in from Chicago who helped Joel have a little piece of our favorite city on his big day - and helped me throw this whole thing off.

My bestie and bridesmaid
And - she came bearing really smart gifts for him.

Stuff Every Husband Should Know

I didn't want the house to look like I was having a party for a six year old boy, so I only added a few nautical and fun decorations - mainly from Target.


dog not included.



I was a little worried about the main activity of the party - the wine tasting - but it ended up being a huge hit.
 

I numbered lunch bags from 1-20 before everyone arrived and each bag had a corresponding dixie cup to hold the votes.

When the guests walked in, I placed their bottle in a randomly numbered bag and placed on the tasting table. Once everyone arrived Joel ran through the directions (rate the wines 1-10 and place your vote in the correct dixie cup).

It took us about an hour to get through all eight bottles of wine and then Joel and Sara took the cups away and figured out the winning -and losing bottles.

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The winner won a bottle of Moet - while the losers were lucky enough 
to take home some two buck chuck.
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Everyone got super into it and it reallllly got the party going.  

It was basically the adult version of taking shots for an hour straight. 
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And - it made for a very, very toasted happy birthday boy.

8.16.2012

Party Preview


Tomorrow is the big 25 party for Joel and I've been busy getting all of the details ready.

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1. Inspired by this image from Pintrest:
Nautical Party
We are going for a nautical wine tasting theme and adding life savors to the plastic ware was such a cute and easy way to carry out the theme

2. We stocked up on lots and lots of wine and champagne - and Joel still doesn't think it's enough.

3. Everyone that was invited was asked to bring wine. As soon as they come inside the apartment I'm going to put their name on their bottle label and put it into a randomly number brown paper bag. The whole party is going to rate each one on a scale of 1-5. Which ever wine get the highest score will receive a fancy bottle of champs. The loser gets some yummy white-zin two buck chuck.

4. And, even more exciting that the first 3 points, one of my best friends arrived in California last night and is here to spend the weekend with us! Let the celebrations begin!

8.15.2012

Wedding Wednesday: Let's Boogey



So far the hardest part of wedding plan has been deciding on the music. The most essential part to having a good time at any wedding is the tunes – right? And for my wedding, all I know is that I want to be on the dance floor the entire time. 
 Wedding music ideas
My parents are both music fans and they’ve decided that they really want a band. I’ve never been to a wedding where a band has played – only djs – but after all of my research, I think this is one of the parts of my wedding that I’m the most excited for. It’s such a statement and if I find the right band, they should have the entire room on their feet. 

The problem is it’s been hard and to find a good band that isn’t atrociously priced. 

Plus, band guys are super talky and have huge egos. For instance I talked to one guy who quoted me $28,000 to perform at my wedding. And requires to be served the meals that I’ll be serving my guests.

 And no his name was not John Mayer – because JESUS – it friggen should have been. 

It’s been a lot of research, phone calls, emails, and forms and I’m starting to get a little nervous. Bands book up super-fast and at the moment, I only have one actual contender who has a playlist I approve and a fee that my father sort of approves.

 Wedding music

If you know any good bands in the Chicago/Wisconsin area I’d love recommendations! And brides, how did you pick your music? Dj? Band? Ipod? What are good things to know?

8.14.2012

Put it in Neutral


 

Maybe it’s the California heat wave or the start of a brand new school year that is looming or maybe the combination of both has me itching to stock up on fresh, crisp, neutral basics.
 

The classic pairing of whites, tans, and camels has a way of turning any outfit into a chic ensemble. Plus, it pairs perfectly with all of the gold jewelry I’ve been obsessed with lately.

 

The only caveat about whites, is that quality really matters. More than any color in my closet, whites can easily look cheap - even when theyre not. I try to find pieces that include nice fabrics. White ployester just isn't going to work. Also, egg shell white can be tricky with my coloring, so I tend to buy pieces that are a little warmer.

I’m trying to stock up on all of these timeless pieces that will so easily transition me into my first SoCal fall.



One. Jcrew Two. DVF Three.L'Agence Four. Karen Walker Five. Stella McCartney Six. Hermes

8.13.2012

Weekend Report


Let’s just say my calves still hurt from this weekend.

On Friday night Joel and I ordered sushi and enjoyed a few glasses of wine on our porch. We had been craving some alone time together (even without the dog), so Joel planned a long hike for us early on Saturday morning.

It took us a little over 2 hours and while I did bitch and moan a lot few times, it was one of the best dates we’ve had in a while. Even though it was about 105 degrees on the freaking mountain and we totally underpacked in the water department - we did it.


At one point while we were scaling down a huge hill, I was grabbing his hand and backpack so I wouldn’t end up on the ground, I felt like we were on a relationship building course. Even though we obviously weren’t, it was nice to have 2 uninterrupted hours to just talk and touch base - alone.

 

 Plus, he took me to a great lunch (and pinkberry) afterwards which definitely helped :)

And I was so glad that I made it to the top

Saturday night we had Brent and Dawn over to our side of the tracks for a little “Tour de Westwood”. We hit up my favorite spots for drinks and snacks – Skylight Gardens, The Backyard at the W Hotel, and TheGlendon - and had such a fun time walking around the neighborhood with them.

And then, in case the 2 hours of hiking on Saturday wasn’t enough – I went again with Shelby and Dawn Sunday morning. We did ended up doing  a really tough route on Runyon Canyon that I never knew existed. It's a hidden gem and It’s about 10x harder than the actual trail . Again, it was freaking HOT but we finished it and rewarded ourselves with Mango Mimosa’s at Aroma Bakery onSunset.

 

After breakfast the 3 of us headed to Home Depot looking to stock up on all sorts of goodies. I used to hate being dragged to home depot as a kid, and now I think it might be my favorite store.

                                                                                       
Dawn was really tired after the hike,


After stuffing Shelby's car within an inch of it's life all of our plants and carpets made it home safely. 

  

I’ve been looking for an indoor plant since I moved to California, and I finally found a winner. Plus, the seafoam colored pot I found was only $4 bucks and matched perfectly with my living room color scheme! Bonus.

I planted the few other plants that I bought while shopping, made some pasta for Joel and I, and we watched the sunset on our back porch. I’ve been loving taking advantage of the weather here in California. Sitting out here is my most favorite way to spend the evenings.

 

8.10.2012

Fridays Thoughts

Did it feel like an insanely long week to anyone else?

On Tuesday I had to drop off my baby pup at the vet for him to get neutered. Surgery went great and when he came he didn't seem to be in too much pain. I worked from home on Wednesday so that I could keep a close eye on him, but come Thursday I needed to get into the office. I came home to find his incision completely ripped open, and all of his stitches gone. The poor guy could barely walked so we literally ran back to the vet for an emergency staples session. Thankfully they didn't have to re-sedate him, but now he is in a ton of pain....and in a huge freaking cone.


Wednesday night I did get to go out for a girls night to celebrate my sweet friend Carly since her and her fiance are "tying the knot" in 2 weeks time and I won't be able to make it to the wedding. I moved out here knowing no one only 5 months ago and these three girls have quickly turned into my California family.*And I'm not just because they are reading this right now, but hi Dawn, Shelby, and Carly, I truly feel so lucky to have them in my life.*


This weekend Joel and I are staying close to home. We are really trying to take advantage of the mountains out here, so I'm planning on taking two long hikes this weekend. It's been a really good way to keep my body moving hard for 3 hours time, and I actually enjoy it. Plus, I made 5 wedding dress appointments for Labor Day weekend in Chicago and I'm starting to semi-freak out. More on that Wednesday ;)

8.09.2012

My Morning Go To


Every morning the only thing that really gets me out of bed is the promise of my sweet routine.
I make a cup of coffee and have a bowl of oatmeal with a banana and cinnamon mixed in Every. Single. Day. And I have for the last 4 or 5 months.


I’m actually curious if my cholesterol has gone down – but that’s besides the point.

The point is that I’m a creature of habit. And I love my morning routine. I move slow and gracefully. The stress of the day hasn’t hit me yet and I try to savor it. I bring my breakfast to the couch and l enjoy it while watching the Today Show and letting the California sun bleed through the windows in the living room. The house is still quiet, my boys are still sleepy, and the whole routine gets my day started on such a good note.

Andy Warhol

I’ve always been a morning person – I need the morning, but I know some people despise it. What’s your go to?

8.08.2012

Wedding Wednesday: a HUGE opportunity


I’m so excited about this week’s topic I could almost hug the computer screen!

It's big you guys.....

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really quite extraordinary....

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because......

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TheKnot.com contacted me to become a weekly contributor to their wedding blog ! ! ! 


{Insert incredibly excited reaction here}

Do you not die??

The articles will cover all sorts of topics from nail polish color to the dreaded bridal diet. I haven’t started my first assignment but when I do I hope that you’ll come visit me over there – show me some official love!

 I promise to update you as soon as the first on is “published”.

Champs time!
Champagne confetti cannons

8.07.2012

Tea Time

 

Let's be straight here, long gone are the days I vent, catch up, and/or bitch over tea. Now that I'm 24, we've moved up to the big leagues. Now, my talking time happens over booze. If it's early in the morning, mimosa's. Lunch? We're drinking white. After 4pm, we can choose either margs or red. BUT my blog....my sweet blog...it's gotta be tea time, and I can't change the name now. I'm in too deep. So our new weekly little gab sessions will have to be labeled as such - however, do know, if we meet (& gab), I much prefer wine over tea.

1. This week has me all kinds of anxious. I've recently taken on new opportunities at work and while it's a fantastic situation - it means I have a lot to learn.

Plus, while I'm learning all of this new stuff, I've got a lot of wedding details going on. Right now I'm trying to make appointments to try on dresses, meet stationer's, pick a band, find bridesmaids dresses, re-visit our venues, and determine a budget. I could manage all that under normal circumstances, but since I'm hiring these people in Chicago, my 6 day trip at the end of August is already bursting at the seams.

2. My sweet baby Roscoe is getting neutered today. I know he will do great, but it does make me a little worried that he's in a major surgery. I'm thinking good thoughts and can't wait to kuzzle him when I pick him up today around 4.

3. My girlfriends and I nailed an 8mile hike on Sunday. It took us every bit of 3 hours and I'm still freaking sore. And seriously sunburned.

4. Trader Joe's wine is the best for weekday splurges. Cocobon is my favorite table wine so far and I picked it up yesterday for $7. Winning.


5. Do you read "Classy & Fabulous" ? Sarah has honestly stolen my heart and I would pretty much pay a moving company to bring her and her cute boyfriend out to Los Angeles. She is just my kinda girl - and I think she'll be yours too.  I really recommend you follow along with her sweet journey....big things are on her horizon and you're not gonna wanna miss it.




Alright dawwwlings, that's all the thoughts I have for you for now. Until next time.

Cheers!

8.03.2012

California Style

Happy Friday ladies! 
TGIF!
I'm so glad today is finally here. My training for my latest position wrapped up yesterday and come Monday morning - the territory is all mine!

1. Can you believe that these are the a few of the outfits that I wore this week? It's AUGUST, ya'll? Who woulda thunk? I'm used to hot freaking temperatures in the summer, and I still can't get over the cooler climate here in Cali.


2. I'm throwing Joel a birthday party two weeks from today and I really need to start the process. We are going to do a "wine tasting" themed event, but we're having 15 people at the house for it and I want to add some fun touches to it. I just started a pinning board for all things wine party.

 Wine tasting party.
Wine Tasting Party table
Wine tasting party

3. Speaking of pintrest, I would do a lot of illegal things to have these pretties on my feet - but I cannot imagine they are comfortable.
giuseppe

4. A reminder to us all. Especially around these parts. No sense in ever being anything but kind - life is way, way too short.
Leave a Legacy 

Cheers!

8.02.2012

How I be makin' that money, honey.

 

In 2010 I graduated college from the University of Iowa. Growing up I always wanted to be a teacher, so it was a no brainer for me to go into Elementary Education. I liked crafts, and reading children's books, and coming up with creative lesson plans - and I figured a job in that field would make me happy enough.

And then I student taught. And I realized that teaching is a lot of work for not a lot of money. Plus, I didn't want to live in the suburbs, and teaching in downtown Chicago isn't a very safe option, so I decided to explore other paths.

 And thank God I did.
:)
I applied to the biggest newspaper company in Chicago and was turned down three times before almost giving up. I had absolutely ZERO experience in anything except for teaching, but I was begging for someone to throw me a bone and let me prove myself.

On my fourth interview, I was offered a job of an appointment setter. I had to make 200 outbound calls every day to small businesses in Baltimore. I was trying to get them to agree to meet an outside sales rep so they could pitch ad space in the yellow pages.

not glamorous.

We were supposed to make 15 appointments a week and I blew it outta the water. I set all sorts of records for the company and was averaging about 40 for any given week.
I was promoted after two months to an inside sales representative. I was selling ad space to small businesses in Chicago to advertise in our newspaper - which was an enormous step up from the Howard County Yellow Pages.

I was pretty dang good at sales and was starting to make a name for myself in this big company, when I was offered a management position. They had signed a deal with an external client and they wanted me to lead the team.

This business was my baby. I dealt with the financials, the comp plans, the marketing strategy, the hiring, and the implementation of all my plans. And they worked. My team and I crushed it and big people noticed.

There was a new opportunity inside the company for me to take on an even bigger team, who generated 5 times the money my team was making at the time. It would have been a huge step in my carrer. 

But that same week, Joel got a job offer in California.

His dream job. A job with a lot of opportunities. A job with a new adventure path for our lives. A job that we decided we couldn't turn down.

And so I quit.
My bosses thought I was joking when I told them in tears on February 13th, 2012. But when I explained the situation, they supported me and understood that I needed to see what else the world had in store for me.

So we moved to California and I was unemployed for two months. I had to move cross country and I went through almost ten thousand dollar worth of savings - but I will always look at that as an investment. An investment in this chapter of my life, and an investment in Joel's career.

On April 13th I was hired by Los Angeles' top newspaper. They didn't have a position for me, but from my strong referrals at the Chicago newspaper, they took me on anyways. 

And just last week I finally got an official title "Outside Sales Executive". I have a book of clients in the Los Angeles area who I sell advertising campaigns to.

I work from home and get to wine and dine clients while making their advertising dreams come true. It's a fantastic job with loads of flexibility and I'm so thankful to have it. 

A lot of big decisions got me to this place where I am today, and each of those decisions scared the shit out of me, but they've gotten me here. They've created this life I have.

And I'm damn, damn thankful for the ways its turned out.

Your journey

8.01.2012

Wedding Wednesday

Take a moment right now to be grateful

Yes, yes.....the wedding is the big affair....but what about the groom? I don't want to lose focus about the fact that while I am having a wedding, what's more important is that I'm getting married. 

And I'm marrying Joel. 
The boy that I've dated since I was 18 years old.

awwww
This summer we've been so busy. We've entertained guests, flown to see friends and family, and had work trips all over the dang place. We honestly haven't spent that much alone time together, and this week, that's what we're focusing on and so I figured it would be a good time to focus on him, here.

Here are a few reasons why I'm really excited to get married to him.

1.  He loves our dog. He really loves our dog. And he worries about him and he dotes on him and he talks to him in a funny voice and plays with him on the floor, and it sort of makes me want to have kids tomorrow. He's going to make a really good dad, and he's going to work hard for our kids and he's going to have a lot of fun with them, and that makes me love him even when he's not a dad.

2. He's a hard worker. And while he's working hard, he isn't complaining. It doesn't matter if he is actually at "work", or running, or cleaning the floors (his chore), he does a damn good job at it. He's got that weird personality...something of a perfectionist...and he gives it his all, all the time. I'm not like that, and he's a good example for me.


3.  He let's me "do me". Which comes from my all time favorite saying "Do you boo boo, cause I'ma do me". I like to be the first people to leave a party. And I like to buy nice wine. I like to blog and I like to drink wine at lunch. And I like to take baths at night and go to sleep before 10. And he let's me. He's never made me feel like I need to change for him, because he likes me the way I am, and I like me the way I am too, so it works out.

4.  We live similarly. This is a little "Miss Advised" but one of my all time dating rules is that you have to be with someone that has a similar lifestyle as you. Or at least wants to have the same lifestyle as you. Not that you have to have the exact same hobbies or interests, but you have to have the same foundation of enjoyment, and Joel and I do. We both like to travel and explore new places, we like to hike and go for runs, we like to eat at nice restaurants and cook good food at home. Now, there are a lot of things that we don't mesh on, but we have the same long term daily goals for our life, and I think that's critical. I actually think I'm going to enjoy the next 70 years of my life with Joel as my partner.

5. We make a really good team. When he's up, I try to stay down. If I'm being cray cray, he tries (sometimes) to bring me back to reality. He stresses about driving, I stress about flying. I make a good dinner, he cleans up the dishes better than anybody. I'm a little bit loud, and sporadic, he's more calm and collected. I think together we make each other better and bring out good qualities of one another - and hopefully we'll keep that trend going for years to come.

love these words

He makes me crazy - and we can look at each other with dagger eyes, and there are plenty of nights that we go to bed mad after screaming at each other I have screamed at him, but at the end of the day, we want to live life together foreve....and that's what counts more than the paper I use for my invitations.